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Old Sep 17, 2013, 11:28 AM
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Originally Posted by s4ndm4n2006 View Post
I get that. I knwo what you mean. Been there, done that. I hope you can endure it but I do understand the feelling. Enduring it and being able to get through it in spite of it will in the end give you strength. Hang in there! I'mhere if you need to talk.

OMG thank you so much. I just do not understand this.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.