My family is very religious and are really into the whole lets get married thing. It's not to say I don't want to get married I mean my fiance and I do want to. But I feel like its a sham if you have to rush to get married. Yes we have been together for three years but, I really believe it takes more then three years to really know someone. We have a lot going for us me being 24 and him being 28 were still relativly young. Is it really wrong to want to be in a place where we can afford to have the wedding of our dreams and have it be the most memorable and happy day?