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Originally Posted by secretwhisper
Well that all seemed a bit pointless. Feel like I've been overthinking this all day for no reason!
It basically went like this:
sw: Please can you not tell people about me?
bf: (nod)
sw: Ever.
bf: (nod)
sw: Because I don't like it, it's not fair.
bf: (nod)
sw: And I've been feeling like **** since you told me.
bf: Why?
sw: Because I didn't want her to know, I don't want anyone knowing!
bf: I only told her because she was telling me about her daughter's MI and it seemed nice to tell her about you.
sw: Well couldn't you have told her about you then? (Bf used to struggle with depression and anxiety)
bf: I did. And then I told her about you too.
sw: Well I wish you hadn't. Don't tell anyone else.
Conversation over.
Well I guess I told him not to do it again and he nodded so thats what I wanted...
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Well I'm glad. Good for you, we can't illicit the response we want out of others we can only do whats best for us and what we feel is right. How he responded is probably a bit less than what you would want but you did the good part of letting him know without any question, how you feel. Be proud of yourself that's a good start. doesn't guarantee everything will be great but it does teach you that you can speak your mind, and assert yourself!
