i was a little hasty about the *****ing. really the *****ing was holiday related. she had big plans and when her family mostly her mother didnt want to go along with the plans she got really *****y.

as for wanting to leave i want to get away from everything and wanted her to go with me. try a new state just get away from the same old crap we deal with everyday but she wants to stay here for our son's school. which is ok but everyone moves around and has to get use to new places things and schools when we were kids. hell most of the time when i got moved around as a child it worked out for the better.

if i did leave my wife i wouldnt leave with her sister i would just leave with me but then i think about my son growing up without a father and i know thats sucks. but i still want to pick up and move along with or without my wife