Hankster: Hmm, maybe attachment is more of my issue. That would make sense because I sometimes push people away or don't allow myself to get close to people. I might withhold even basic stories about my day from friends, for example. I see what your'e saying about the college counseling center... I don't think my T really has fancy techniques that she uses. Thank you for your example about the party. I will definitely look into attachment more and learn more about it because I see some similarities in what you are saying.