Dear Lost -- I like Angie's idea of going on a getaway to get a different perspective on things. The geographic "cure" rarely turns out to be the fresh start one envisions. I'm sure you've heard the saying -- Wherever you go, there you are. Before taking off for a fresh start, it might help to do some clear thinking about exactly what it is you want to leave behind and what you hope to find. That might happen on a retreat or time out or with a counselor.