I'd be a little careful about giving all the credit / blame to the humanists. Most humanists aren't activists. I have to say I'd be surprised if it were the agnostics / atheists who were the driving force compared with people of other faiths.

You see people as trying to ban christmas? Do you think they mind if you celebrate christmas in your own home?

Why do you consider it 'soft' to have secular carrolls?

Would you sing Muslim songs?

Do you think it would be fair for people to ask you to?