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Originally Posted by I.Am.The.End.
It's ALL about how you look. You won't even exist for someone to get to know you unless you're skinny and look like a model.
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I understand your perspective and while I know it may seem that way a lot of the time, please don't jump to that conclusion. Do you really have the perception that all men are this way? I won't argue that a lot of them are, but hun please understand, it's not all of them. I was married to my wife 13 years and married her as she was even at the time, a bit overweight. There are decent men out there that are capable of seeing beyond that.
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It's disgusting. It's about how quick and easy you are too...now I'm not trying to judge other people's clothing choices and life choices, but no one should have to dress in such a way that is provocative (unless they want to) in order to "exist" to guys or at least exist as a sexual being. I think that's it—I'm not perceived as a sexual being. But I should be able to stay covered up and not be ignored because of that. Why am I such a lesser being for not wanting to have sex immediately...for not personally wanting to flaunt my body...for not being the skinniest girl in the freaking room.
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You just need to find the men that don't think superficially and want to know you... for all thta you are :/ i mean the thing is, after all this is about finding the right man not finding one that will want you in bed after the first date anyway! the same men that ignore you or don't notice you are the ones that aren't worth even worrying about anyway, they are the ones that think with the wrong "part" of their body and therefore aren't very good long term partners anyway!