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Originally Posted by allme
Yes I think we could all do with a bit of that. People are so quick to point out and punish us (in their own way) when we have done wrong but rarely do we receive a reward of positive comments when we have done right. I honestly think some people just don't want us to feel good...I think it's their way of feeling better about themselves.
I could do with a little of this at the moment, it seems all that's pointed out to me are the things that are 'wrong' about my personality or the things I do wrong, or at least, perceived wrong by others.
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Awww well we can only control what we do. That's partially my point. for yourself if you don't get it from others you have to do for yourself and reward yourself, dont' rely on others to do so. 9 x out of 10 they won't.
But for others we should go out of our way when the people we know and love do actually please us, to do something to make them feel over the top special and happy aobut the fact that they made us happy. We (not just bpd people, people in general) all dont' do any of this enough!