good advice yall. A dr can check hormone levels and such to make sure things are on the up and up.

Having sex when you didn't really want to does have some affect on your brain. As badly as you want to have sex and have it to be good, it is so hard to make that switch. Your brain is indeed protecting you. If you were accustomed to "zoning out" durring sex w/ the ex hubs it is very hard to reverse. I have been there. I have had sex far to many times w/ my H and didn't really want to. It was easier to mentally go away and just wait for him to be done with me.

Now that has gotten my brain into a bad spot and I can't seem to get the O's to work in my favor. Oral used to be my favorite thing, it was a sure fire way to reach O. but not any more. It is quite frustrating in more ways then one.

Do you have a T you can work threw this with. There are things you can do to reverse this. I am working on that right now.