Reverse shoes and think what you'd think/feel about you in his (or someone else who knew/cared about you)? Do you think your teachers didn't like you when they learned how ignorant you were, when you raised your hand with "the" answer and gave a wrong one instead? Another person doesn't see us like we think they see us, they're in a different place than we are, are different people ages/sex/background. My T once reminded me about children and how when they get mad at their mother they tell her they hate her? The mother doesn't believe that! The mother knows better, that it's a situation not anything continuous/permanent. Your relationship with your T isn't just about last week, it's been going on for awhile and all those weeks "count."