Bleh, kindling schmidling. Often meds do trigger episode or stop working or whatever... and you still have episodes on meds. Does it mean if you have med induced episode you just kindled a bit?

Anyways, if I think you can try to discuss that no APs, but willing to try other options. I personally think that APs outside of real bad psychosis are like prescribing for chemos for flu...

and eh, they can't make you take anything. Why not explain that you wanna try something else and try the DBT course and see?