I guess I would agree with her... I think... well I guess that I have loved having an ED. so I just leave the worrying up to the doctors. when they say its time to worry then I will worry... I guess... I dont like to worry to much about it though. but I would just try to advocate for yourself. and I guess just try to kind of demand that you get help for your ED. when I came to realize that having an ED was not healthy, I advocated for myself. And when I did that, I got what I wanted. Well, good luck!