Hi

It is more than likely you wouldn't of had the same feelings even if you had met under different circumstances. Transference can feel so intense but those feelings you are projecting onto her, belong to someone else. I went through an awful time when I suffered with erotic transference for ex t. It nearly ruined my life because he handled it so unethically and wrong. You will get over these feelings in time after your sessions have ended I REALLY understand what you are feeling

Have you spoken to her about these feelings?