Tough situations - I think you are stronger sometimes and don't give yourself credit. Besides, it's not weak to have feelings.
I think abaout how huge my feelings can become for me - it is just how it is, but feelings are only one kind of reality..... so we judge ourselves, others judge -

hey, I'm not up to being too wise here - The holidays are tough in part because even when it's good it isn't as wonderful as we hoped for and needed. I was lucky to be alone hristmas day with loved ones calling me. Restful but not lonesome.