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Originally Posted by ak482
Well apparently having had sex is a prerequisite for love. I'm sick of everyone I know having relationships and these pleasures and me never having even come close. I've not only not had intercourse, I've never had any sexual arousal from a woman, EVER!!!! I need something, anything. I don't regard women as mere sex objects, but I'm sick to death of not having any pleasure. And I'm sorry I don't want anybody to tell me to suggest finding a fellow virgin, I NEED SEX AND I NEED IT NOW!!!!!!!!!! Apologies for shouting, I'm at my wit's end with everything.
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I know, this may be a question of men and women viewing it all differently. Sex and relationships, "love" can be easily separated in the mind by most guys. We have a biological drive that says "I need it" as you state. And there is nothing wrong with that. At all.
If it is 2 consenting adults doing nothing harmful or illegal, what is the problem? Perfectly legal in Nevada everywhere except Clark County/Vegas.
Go for it, get some experience, get some release of physical and psychological tension. Don't feel guilty, don't feel ashamed. If you have a buddy who is unattached, take him, make a bro's trip out of it. Hell, if I had the time I'd offer to go with you myself. It's been a while since I've been in a relationship, my last one really broke my heart, I'm not ready for that again, but I'm not dead yet by any means,
Dude, just do it, you won't be sorry. Rite of passage, you're entitled and overdue.