I would imagine that there are times when T's maybe not "like us"....there are times when I don't like my husband or my children...it doesn't mean I will dislike them forever...its just maybe more to do with whats going on for me on any particular day.....as we talk about these feelings with our T's we realise that being human means being imperfect....and there is nothing I can say or do that will "make" someone like me....and thats fine......I guess there are times that we don't always like our therapist? I use to want to copy my T in everything I percieved her to like and to wear...now I am finding that I am allowing myself to not always like what she is wearing and still feel "safe"....like isn't either/or its always somewhere in between and that includes liking and disliking someone :-)