Hi everyone. I'm 14, high schooler, female.

Basically, I just moved to this new school after I cut my hair about chin length so I could donate it to Locks of Love. Also, I joined this program called JROTC which is about the Army and such.

Because of this, I dress in the Physical Training uniform after school everyday which is tailored to a guy's body.

One of the guys on my team said twice that I looked like a guy while keeping my bearing and with my hair back and when he pushed me on my back, he jumped back and said, "Whoa! I felt you're bra strap."

And I was like, "Ok? That's kinda creepy."

And he was like, "Well, I just think of you as a guy so I guess I didn't expect it."




Anyways, that didn't really bother me that much since I know I'm a petite person to begin with and the shirt and shorts are much too large for me. Of course he would think of me that way.

However, a few days ago, he comes up to me very nervously and asks, "Do I tell you if one of my friends thinks you're cute?"

And I'm like, "It's your choice. Don't you have any other girl friends to ask?"

And he's like, "Yeah, she thinks you're cute."

And I'm stunned. I'm...pretty sure I'm straight, but at this age, I don't know.... I've never met anyone that is a homosexual, not that I have anything against it at all.

I remember in elementary school, I used to wonder if I could marry my best friend, like not in a romantic way, but just so we could be chained to each other. Like if we were "married", then we would never have to leave each other and we could stay BFF's without growing apart.

Is that a sign that I'm a repressed lesbian? Should I be worried? Should I embrace it? Sigh, I just don't know. Why is everything so confusing? And I don't even know this girl. Should I inquire about who it is? How should I feel? Help