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Originally Posted by Silent_Tears_17
How do you know whether your asexual, or just dealing with past sexual trauma? Like how do you know the difference between being scared of relationships, being triggered by sexual feelings and actually being asexual?
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For me, I've had no sexual trauma. I lost my virginity to someone I cared about, and it was all fine, but the sex bored me and didn't really do anything for me. I thought that I must have had sexual trauma, but I lost interest in sex far before I was assaulted etc. I had sex many times (I was in a few serious relationships) and I never enjoyed it. Not really, MAYBE once.
I will have random sex now and again with a certain "friend" simply to see if it does anything. Still nothing. At least she knows we are just friends.