So sorry, but I don't see this song about rape! Maybe bordering a bit on the rough side of sex(think BDSM), but I just don't read it that way.

In some ways, I often wondered if he wanted her to cheat on her bf/so with him? And he's just, to me, saying...hey, I've got something big sized for you.

But, dunno, I don't see the rape aspect.