Thanks so much for your reply, TigerTHC

I'm fine with it in general, not super upset or anything - it's only if I think about what's going on with her that I feel uneasy, if that makes sense! And I guess I feel like it's a crack in the trust, if she said we could talk about something yesterday but then vanishes that isn't really good enough...and then I think well what if something serious has happened her. Lol, I just end up chasing my tail! Maybe I waded in and trusted too quickly and maybe this is a therapy 'trick' to show me that she'll float back into my horizon in her own time, or something. But I'm not cool with it if it's a trick. Perhaps time to move on, I guess!