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Originally Posted by 4D2Long
Is this guy telling you these things? Or are you witnessing these things? Huge difference...if a guy starts talking about getting beat up, runnnnnn.....do not get in a relationship with a man whose mother or wife beat on him....he will never trust women again......I guess the same is true for women...no double there...
It really is sad that our early relationships shape our beliefs, but that is how the mind of most people work..this fact is why there needs to be tougher child abuse laws in place....kids are our future citizens that will shape our world...does anybody get that? Helllloooo...do people hear that?
Good luck in supporting someone who lives in a tragedy novel.....they are forever in one cort tussle after another...the courts hate these losers....and have little respect if any, because they know that either one can stop using the governments time and money with their nonsense and drivel.....seriously, tell this guy I said to get a life....take his troubles out of the courts hands..get some self respect....
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Thanks for your feedback on this thread, but I have to respectfully disagree.
I've been in a relationship with this wonderful man for almost 2 years now, and he's trusted me almost completely, with his kids, and with him.
He went through a rough patch when I first posted this, he's since sought counselling, which has worked wonders for him. I've learned a lot about patience plus, both of us have done a lot of personal self-help work, self-love. No relationship is textbook or fairy tale, and he's learned a lot about himself by going through the rough spells, and having people who support him (emotionally).
A lot of people are abused in a many different ways while growing up, some worse than others. Most people recover from whatever it was, and lead healthy, and happy adult lives. I'm thankful both myself, and my partner are part of that, healing/working on healthy behaviors portion of the population, and not the irreparably damaged portion of the population who apparently doesn't deserve love or happiness because they were victims of abuse.