The one I see has said I should use her as a good mother figure. Then she goes on to describe things I don't know why I would want from anyone, let alone her.
If I understand her description correctly, she means that she would be/I should believe she is supportive, encouraging, an ally, non-punitive, and wanting to act with positive regard to me.
Just typing that out makes me a little anxious. To me, the notion of the therapist being those things is simply awful (that is not the completely correct word, but I don't seem to be able to describe it better). To others, it is comforting. I find nothing wrong if someone finds it a comforting idea. I just do not myself.
A definition from Dictionary.com:
a woman embodying or seeming to embody the qualities of an idealized conception of the female parent, eliciting from others the emotional responses that a child typically has toward its mother.
In this, I think it would be the last one - the complete mother
http://www.psychologies.co.uk/family...r-types-2.html