I am really glad you are a great Pappa. All too often the pappa lets all of the details be covered by mamma. I think that in my experience there have been few pappas who plan doc appoints and play dates etc. I am sorry your feelings were hurt. My spouse is a very good Pappa so I do understand. Glad you wrote the letter. BTW, Are you close enough to sit my little one? Sounds like you would be great with her.