Sep 20, 2013 at 01:37 PM
This happens to me and I realize that it is going to turn into a rant instead of being supportive...I delete the whole thing and give up. Also I can not get my thoughts done into a cohesive sentence. Then I also think about the judgmental replies and that stops me.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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