Ok so this is really personal and embaressing. I don't even know if this is the right category to ask this in.. but its the only one regarding sex period soo..

I have 4 pimple looking things, down there. yeah. and im really realy stressed. My doctor told me shes 80% sure its NOT herpes. It could be some other type of infection. the main reason im hanging on to the fact its not herpes is because, herpes comes and goes. outbreaks last a bit, then go away. these dots have lasted, consistently non changing non disappearing, for over 2 months now.

is it possible that there is herpes out there that doesn't come and go and stays forever and I have it? lol. (am I that doomed with bad luck?!!)

What do you guys think? anyone know anything about infections it could be or had experience with herpes or any other infection.. please let me know!!

and in the meantime, before I get checked, how can I calm my mind.. ?