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Originally Posted by LeDerp
Also, I find that who I am changes radically depending on who I'm with. However when I'm alone I have no clue who I REALLY am (am I kind? Am I cruel? Do I really like metal or do I love opera? Etc... (I couldn't think of better examples)).
I also find myself lying a lot for no real reason or simply to have a story to tell.
Are these characteristics of BPD?
Thanks again!
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Yes and I believe there can be some variation to it too. For example, if I'm around some one I don't like, I won't become more like that person or even care any thing about him. I will have to ignore him or most likely insult him. When I am alone I don't really have an identity however I can take any one on I have in reserve. Like changing hats. I often wonder exactly what is my own personality and come up blank. I can only see what I want to be at that moment or nothing.