I understand the left out feeling you are talking about. it seems there are cliques in chat just like in real life. I have found it helpful to find one person in chat to talk to and then I feel as if I am a part, but the real place I have found a home here at pc is in games, especially thread wars. we are a real family there. we share about our problems and support each other thru out the game and really have gotten to know one another. youre welcome to join in.