I'm sorry you are having such a hard time with your ex.

I do want to put in a word, however...

For the people with antisocial personality disorder and narcissistic personality disorder and borderline personality disorder and the like...

individuals are individuals and while it does indeed sound like you are having a hard time with your ex and he has something of a pattern of this...

not all people (not even most people) with antisocial personality disorder or narcissistic personality disorder or borderline personality disorder behave in such a manner.