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Old Sep 20, 2013, 07:26 PM
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Originally Posted by kaliope View Post
being vulnerable is frightening, usually because most of us are in therapy in the first place because someone we trusted greatly violated that trust. we have to learn to trust all over again and our instinct is not to do that. we must protect ourselves. it is admirable that you are taking positive steps in trusting your t in therapy. take care.
Thanks, Kaliope
Yeah...this building trust thing is hard!! I feel like such a sh** sometimes because my T is always there for me yet the littlest thing will throw me off!! Insecurity rearing its ugly head. I had the ultimate betrayal as a child..I will just say it...being molested by an uncle for several years and THEY KNEW and did nothing to stop the abuse...I can't imagine...if anyone ever tried anything with my kids or ANY child I fear to say what I would do...
whew...that just came out!! But yeah...trust takes time and thank you for your support!!
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