I think hugs would make me stressy and unhappy. Letting the therapist into my head is quite enough - it's like I've used up all available intimacy and a hug would overstretch me.

Weird, cause I'm very comfortable with hugging friends. Absolutely fine with those acquaintances who zoom in for hugs as well. And I'm very tactile with all my lovers - if they aren't enthusiastic about cuddles then they don't become a lover, period. Living the life of a nun this last month, I definitely crave those cuddles, but don't really care whether I touch anyone else or not.