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Old Sep 21, 2013, 08:08 AM
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Originally Posted by Lonely Guy View Post
Thanks for the advice. I know I have to try and stay away. She texted me this morning and I'm going to try not to reply. It's just so hard, I thought she was my soulmate and we'd always be together.
Is she really worth, the way you are feeling? Married for 10 years, but lived apart for 5.

You mentioned being worried about finding a new girl, hence, settling for a cheater and an addict?

Right now, isn't the time to worry about a new relationship, lest it's the new relationship with yourself, as you heal from your depression and addiction to this woman.

Can't full well move onto a new love interest, if you are still stuck on the old one. It's considered being emotionally unavailable.