Wow, thanks!
Alexandra_k - yeah, my T knows how scared I am, but I don't like to talk about it much because my little gets mad when I talk about it.
Benny-I know that song. It's from the Sound of Music, right? I love that song. I will try to sing it to myself.
Cat - Those are some really great ideas. I think I am going to have to try them out. I would love to be able to, safely, allow her to get her anger out.
Thanks for all the ideas, it really helps.