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I guess my thing is he's a Christian and I try to be respectful of that. I'm a Christian too of course or I wouldn't be seeing a Christian counselor.

But my husband has had a very severe depression this year and I have not been very understanding of it the last few months. And some of the things I said were not very nice. And he stuck up for my hubby. Now I am afraid he must think I'm a total witch.

I know I am feeling that way about myself right now. I really dont' feel worthy of the love of my husband lately. I am just not that easy to live with and not always very nice. I am not happy with ME right now.

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I guess my first response is "let yourself be human"...I guess living with someone that is having "problems" is a strain on the best intentioned.....give yourself a break...whose taking care off you while your taking care of your husband?...we are human not super human and somedays I do things I'm none to proud off...but its living with those not so good choices instead of beating myself up for that I am aiming for....I use to feel that I "should" be a saint.....but someone once told me to get off the cross as the wood is needed somewhere else lol....anyways if you weren't a kind caring person I doubt this debate would have happened?