Last night I had one of those sleepless nights. Our 4 year old was sick and would cry for a little bit, then stop then go back to sleep .... most of the night went like that ...
During one of his crying spells my husband yelled from the room: What are you doing to him?! I told him he wasn't feeling right (headache and runy nose). When he cried again my husband again asked what I was doing to him. I was trying to give him some medicine to help him feel better. He said it sure sounded like I was doing something to him so he was going to take over ...
Thank goodness my boy cried: "mooommmmmmy" and he realized my precious one wanted to be with me.

My husband used to be mean to me most of the time not around the kids, but lately, he's doing it in front of the kids. He knows I don't want yelling and screaming and fighting in front of them, so I won't answer back ... Maybe it is good, so the kids start seeing his true colors ... what a shame!

gab