I can see how this would be very frustrating on your part. You were made to look like the one that was crazy and maybe 'to interested' in her life. I am like you in the fact I can let things that really have no real impact or relivance on my life way on my mind. The best thing to do is just let it go. Dont talk about it, try not to think about it. Your are wasting your energy on somthing that really has no bearing on your life. For some reason this lady went to the effort of creating a very elborate 40 week lie so she must be very set on keeping this a secert. Why? Who knows but it is her life to live and not anyones place to tell her how to do so. So I would wish her the best and hope that she is now happy with her new family as it was seeming as her world was about to come crashing down. Try to see the good in the situation....the baby has a mom who truly wants and loves him. Focus on the good, let it gos, move on and out your energy into you and the ones you love