I know what you mean, I think. I use to post a lot on here, then life happened and I stopped. Recently life is happening again, so I started again. I use to find some of my darkest posts and most pent up feelings I would express wouldn't get an answer, or would get an answer that had completely missed the point. Or even something as simple as "don't give in and hold in there as hard as you can". Can be further depressing if that's all that was there. Though that being said sometimes it can be nice.

However, in some of the more debate sections, I learned to keep my more out there opinions to myself. That being said, I have met a lot of people on this site with very different opinions to the norms.

I guess the trick for me has always been trying to find the balance between getting the most amount of personal help, while not being too bold as to make others feel awkward (or expect that when I do).

To conclude, I don't really know anything about you Edda, so I hope that this isn't way off topic and maybe even helps a bit. Here's a comic that basically sums up how I feel sometimes, both here and elsewhere. Luckily not everyone's like that though: