Boosting your self esteem is a good idea for sure all though if the wound is fresh it is hard to pick yourself and brush yourself off. I feel confident that in time you will see things differently and have the strength to take care of yourself. You deserve to be happy and beleive it or not your in charge of your own happiness it is just hard to take control sometimes....believe me....I know

As for the quote lied blow this by Shannon L. Alder......I needed to hear that. i have made mistakes in my life that I cant let go of but i have learned from them and and am truley sorry for those I have hurt as my intentions were not to do so. I need to et go and move on and show my character by not not repeating and doing 'better' in simlar situations. I know we are here to learn and grow and that life is full of mistakes yet i find it hard to forgive myself. Thanks for the advice.

Good luck to all I will send positive thoughts