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Originally Posted by oldlife_disrupted
Don't apologize for whining, that's practically what this web site is for 
Does he realize that the military is going to have him move all over the place at their whim once his schooling they're paying for is finished? Perhaps if you explained that you're willing to move for him at that point in his life and that you'd appreciate his help for this? |
Well he's getting out of the military, he's been in for fives years and now he's free to pursue another career or go to school because of they're paying. He's free to go where ever he wants now...he's just not as...spontaneous as me.
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Originally Posted by healingme4me
Sorry to hear, that he isn't willing to relocate, just yet. Perhaps, he is feeling a bit crushed and dismayed, himself, to consider that you want/need to leave where he is?
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We've both lived here our whole lives and I know he wants to move, he's said it. Just getting him to take running start is the problem. He's pretty stubborn.
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Allie
Diagnosed: Generalized Anxiety Disorder & Obsessive Compulsive Disoder. Previous: Borderline Personality Disorder.
I no longer qualify for a diagnosis of Borderline Personality Disorder, but there will always be my borderline traits that I struggle with especially during times of great stress.
I've been working passionately as a therapist since December 2016
