Hello OPRMC,

I am in the same exact predicament you are in. Except I'm 33 and female with no prospects for a boyfriend or a husband, not that I really want one. My biological clock is ticking with no prospects for marriage or children. Everyone around me has someone including my 20 year old sister who is probably going to get married next year. Which means I will have to find my fat self a dress and face family members even though I look terrible. I gave up taking care of myself and my appearance. I exist every day. Not happy not sad, just in limbo.

I have an income and I have therapy and I have meds yet I am still in this place. People say get therapy and get meds and you will be better, but I have all those things plus money coming in and I have no desire for anything. I am in a constant state of laziness, locked in my room and letting every day pass me by.

I don't really know what I am trying to say here, but just know that you're not alone.