Child Custody and Visitation Decisions in Domestic Violence Cases: Legal Trends, Research Findings, and Recommendations
However, violence against one parent by another is often considered in custody-determination proceedings (Family Violence Project, 1995
How To Deal With An Abusive Husband During A Divorce | LIVESTRONG.COM
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Originally Posted by Survivor82
How do you wake up out of what seems to be a never ending nightmare? I have only been married for 3 years and I have been getting beat since before we were married! Did I ignore the signs? Yes. Did I see red flags? Yes. Yet, I walked down the isle and now I am desperately trying to escape this MONSTER of a husband alive and make a better life for myself and two children! But how do you do it? How do you get away? How do you wake up without falling back to sleep?
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One thing, to do, returning back to the OP, is to emotionally separate yourself from the illusion of what you felt was the love you felt for this man. Not falling back to sleep, tells me, that there is something inside of you that fears being without him. (not necessarily the abusive him, but the ideal of his good side)
How are things, going, right now?