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Old Sep 23, 2013, 11:12 AM
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Originally Posted by dumburn View Post
When you spend two months after being told you have bpd reading EVERYTHING on the internet hoping to prove the doctor is wrong, and then read this thread and realise he might actually be right - and still hate him for it

Oh yes this has been me alright.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.