This is something my husband and don't agree on. When I'm out of town he calls about the dumbest things just whenever he thinks about it. I'm like leave me alone, I'm busy at whatever I doing. I probably wouldn't call him at all because it's just not where my head is at. In other words, I forget. We don't fight over it. But I'm anoyed when he calls me all the time and refuses to learn to text. He tries to do better now and I try to do better too. It's just a matter of coming to an agreement on what you both expect.