Yes, stay in therapy and have no further contact with the criminal; it will only cause you pain. He doesn't believe he committed a crime. I dislike the word, "closure" there are some things you can't forget and have to find a way to live with them. You might want to write a letter of "restorative justice___that means...this is what you did, this is how it made me feel. The letter is for YOU, because it is rare that an abuser admits his crime........No contact.
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