I'm afraid I haven't had that problem. Men don't look at me. Not even my breasts. I am just THAT ugly. But when I was younger they used to look, but it didn't bother me that much. What bothered me (like it bothers you) is the dirty old man with his children and wife that break their neck to take a peek. If a guy is single and looking, hey its in their makeup to find a mate. But if you're already in a relationship, have some self control!