Flaming dyke checking in. People talk about signs and all that but the core of the matter is, are you sexually and emotionally attracted to girls? If you are but you still like guys, you might be bisexual. If it's just girls, you might be gay. Or you might be confused. Time sorts feelings out the best. If you want to, you can try to experiment with things but I get that a lot of people your age aren't really ready for that.
About the not knowing anyone that's gay, you probably do but you just don't know it. Society conditioned a lot of people to think that if a gay guy/girl doesnt follow all the queer stereotypes, the must be either confused or lying or whatever, but its not true at all.
I wouldnt be worried at all. If you turn out to be gay, its just another part of who you are. Gay people arent just 'gay' its just an aspect of them. It would be healthy, if you realize you are gay, to work on embracing it for sure. You could ask the girl what she meant; i agree that a lot of straight girls compliment and 'flirt' with each other like that, because women tend to be more touchy and just like that.
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~“There are no more barriers to cross. All I have in common with the uncontrollable and the insane, the vicious and the evil, all the mayhem I have caused and my utter indifference toward it I have now surpassed."
-Brent Easton Ellis, American Psycho
Last edited by MarlboroChick; Sep 23, 2013 at 09:50 PM.
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