Thread: Such a COWARD
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Old Sep 24, 2013, 12:49 AM
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Originally Posted by Littlemeinside View Post
So Tīs are not just objects in the room any longer?

I think sometimes Tīs try to do what they feel is useful to the client, when the client canīt see it in the moment.
I said I could see it, not that I wanted it.
To me, the one I see is an object in the room. Sometimes they can be a more useful object and at other times a less useful object.

And a therapist does not get to press an agenda on a client, in my opinion.
The OP here wants to focus on coping skills with the therapist. Focussing on what the client does not want is not useful in my opinion.
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