At my ex-job I had to work with 3 girls very closely. The culture of the job wasn't a fit with my personality, but all the other girls there were the same and got along great. I was always positive, friendly, unique, and helpful when I could be.

The leader (mini supervisor) of the group belittled me, would say negative things about my personality when I would be minding my own business. Called me stupid, and said what I had to say was pointless. Disrespected me by giving me a nickname. And when her followers would say something disrespectful to me she was the happiest. (One girl would praise her over everything the leader did, while ignoring me, and the other was the leaders best friend) They always praised themselves. While crying about how they were victims of @$$holes and mean girls in HS.

I need help getting over them. It was okay in high-school, but grown women doing this is just too much to take. I didn't understand were all the hatred and annoyance of me came from especially since when I got the point I stopped interacting with them personally. Also it's not like I was the favorite, or best worker.... (I was an OK worker...I did my best, and didn't slow the team down, but there were other workers that sucked at there jobs that didn't get hated)

I'm not sure if I threaten them in someway, or was I just a dumping ground for there CR@P because I was different from them....

I'm so afraid of this happening to me again at my new job, and I can't stop thinking about why I was belittled in the first place....