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Originally Posted by stopdog
OP - I don't think you are a coward. i think the therapist has created an impossible situation for you with the contract thing and I understand frustration when the therapist will not listen to you. Good luck with it.
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She could be asking because she doesn't know you're SH-ing so she doesn't feel the need to go over coping skills again? However, I think the client gets the final say what is discussed in the session. It's the clients life (and money
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Honestly, the rule is absurd, you are forced to lie to her. SH is ussually a complex behaviour- needs to be discuss and not ignored. Giving ultimatum is not helpful - if it were SH would be healed in one session
. I really think you need to discuss it with her, I'd understand her wanting you to go IP but terminating because of SH? Not helpful for you
