***This one, I'm gonna have to take in small, easy steps.***
Hi (((((((((((((((((Tomi))))))))))))))))): I think this advice you've given is very good. Everything that is going on is too much to take all at once. Don't let the bastards win, i.e., don't let all of this make you sick = you don't deserve that.
More hugs ...
XOXO, Jillers
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